Christian Service for Death by Medical Assistance in Dying (MAID)

As I noted in my Winnipeg Free Press column about Medical Assistance In Dying (MAID), it is becoming more acceptable among religious people. Yet there are no formal Christian liturgies or services available for those who choose the procedure.   

For the dying through MAID of John Regehr, his son, Rennie, prepared his own liturgy/service, which he has given me permission to share.

Service for the Medical Assistance In Death of John Regehr, November 7, 2019.

Prior to the service, the doctor arrived. The family was ushered out of the and John was once again asked to confirm once again that he wanted to go ahead with MAID. 

His answer: “My wings are poised. I’m ready for flight.” 

Outside the room, the family was told what would happen, the drugs involved, how they worked and in what sequence. They then rejoined their father and the service began. 

Family Blessing 

First reading: Isaiah 41:10. 

Fear not, for I am with you:

Be not dismayed, for I am your God.

I will strengthen you;

Yes, I will help you.

 

John Regehr’s Blessing for the Family

 

Second reading: Numbers 6:24-26.

 

(The ancient blessing, as written by John, and read by Rennie on his behalf as John could no longer speak.)

 

The Lord bless you

with all manner of good,

and keep you

from all manner of harm.

The Lord make his face shine upon you

and be gracious to you,

assuring you that you belong to him,

and he delights in you.

And when you stumble,

and are burdened with regrets,

the Lord will turn his face toward you

in compassion and love,

and give you peace again.

 

Scripture Reading

 

Psalm 23.

Liturgy of Committal and Blessing 

 

Jesus said, "I am the resurrection and the life" (John 11:25-26). “I am he that lives, and was dead,” says the LORD, “and behold I am alive forevermore. Amen” (Revelation 1:8). 

So … “Blessed are those who die in the LORD from now on. Yes, says the Spirit, they are blessed indeed, for they will rest from their hard work, for their good deeds will follow them” (Revelation 14:13). 

And “this is the promise that He has given to us, even eternal life” (1 John 2:25). 

“Can anything separate us from Christ’s love? … I am convinced that nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:35-39) 

And then, directing a question to John: 

“John, can anything separate you from the love of Christ?” 

Shaking his head emphatically, he unequivocally answered: “No!”. 

Response: “This then is our hope and this is our life. That Christ lives and will return again; and we live with him. 

Benediction 

John, go forth from this world: 

In the love of God the Father who created you,

In the mercy of Jesus Christ who redeemed you,

In the power of the Holy Spirit who strengthens you.

And as you join the communion of all the faithful who have gone before you, may you dwell this day in peace.

Holy Lord, almighty and eternal God, hear our prayers as we entrust John Regehr to you. Enfold him in the arms of your mercy, and into your eternal rest, through Jesus Christ our Lord.  

We look forward to the great resurrection at the last day when those who die in the Lord shall be raised to eternal glory and an endless life of joy and peace with God. 

We ask now that you would renew us with hope for the future. As you receive John’s spirit we pray that you would strengthen our spirits. Keep us faithful as we await the day of resurrection when we meet you face to face. 

May your Spirit give comfort to loved ones gathered here, and those who are present in spirit. Be gracious to them, comfort them, and grant them your peace. 

Now may the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God the Father, and the presence of the Holy Spirit be with you all, Amen.” 

Sending music 

At this point, the family indicated to the medical team that the drugs could be administered. Rennie then began to play one of John’s favourite hymns on his viola: Wehrlos und verlassen. (In the Rifted Rock I'm Resting.)

When it was over, the doctor leaned over and listened to his silent heartbeat. “He’s in flight,”